We are California natives and Texas implanted. A husband and wife planning, design and styling duo with an intense love for life. We are such private people by nature but we thought it would be fun to let you have a peek into our weddings, events, adventures and lives! Come along with us on our blogging journey as we get to know who we are as a company, a couple and ourselves better.

Journal

OUR
journal

welcome to 


Editorials


Weddings


Life

Browse More categories

Southern Charm No. 22   You have your loyal #girlsquad all on standby to receive their Pinterest inspired “Will you be my Bridesmaid” gift, but you can’t send them until you make that one final decision – will you or won’t you ask your future Sister-in-Law to be a part of the party? While there is no […]

Southern Charm No. 21   You have found the new love of your life and it is time to plan your Encore Wedding. You’ve already done the numerous showers and huge registries the first time around, and wanting to know if it is appropriate to register for your 2nd Big Day?! The answer is a short and […]

Southern Charm No. 20 Did you know that there is a such thing as napkin etiquette – to teach you where to place your napkin to signal to others if you are temporarily excusing your self or leaving for good? Today we are giving you a brief dinner napkin 101: Where to place your napkin when you […]

Southern Charm No. 19 Traditional etiquette states that the bride’s family should not host showers. Why?! Because the main point of a shower is to provide the Bride with gifts and it could come off as the family asking for gifts, which is a big NO NO. Today, while it is still very much a […]

Southern Charm No. 18 In today’s society people feel the need to capture every moment of their lives with their cell phones and post to social media. On a normal day, we get it, but what about when it comes to your Wedding Day? Cell phones can be sort of annoying during the wedding ceremony not only for […]

Southern Charm No. 17 Time to go gift shopping for the couple and you’ve made the decision to monogram the gift. One of the most important decisions when buying a monogrammed gift is choosing the style and making sure the initials are in proper order. A few guidelines to selecting the perfect monogram for that perfect […]

Southern Charm No. 16 The Bride & Groom have spent a little over a year planning this special day only for the attention to be taken away from them by some guest proposing to his girlfriend in the middle of the dance floor. Be honest – how would you react if you were there? This […]

Southern Charm No. 15 You probably thought you knew everything about how to properly eat at a dinner party, right?! We all know (or should know) not to put your elbows the table. And now thanks to our Southern Charm No. 6, you know which bread plate and drink is yours for the taking. But […]

Southern Charm No. 14 There is technically no rule written in stone saying you have to feed your vendors. However, it is proper etiquette to feed all vendors working a minimum of (4) hours, during lunch or dinner, on the wedding day. Vendors like your Photographer, DJ and Wedding Planner are running around from 6-12 hours on your big […]

About: Southern Affairs has joined forces with an amazing team of vendors to launch a new service: Intimate Celebrations! Let’s celebrate your love with a ceremony & reception alternative. Think styled shoot meets Vegas chapel wedding! This all-inclusive package is ideal for the couple that would love a beautiful affair but without all the extra […]

ALWAYS REFINE. ON THE DAILY.

@SOUTHERN_AFFAIRS

join us on instagram