This is a tricky situation! Although you may be looking out for your girls, you need to be careful of what you’re asking of them. It’s perfectly normal to want the crew to have their hair and makeup done; however, you should probably give them options on how to do that. Since the expenses can add up, you may want to offer hair and makeup services as your bridesmaid gift! Who doesn’t love being pampered?! Another solution may be asking a family friend who is a beauty guru to glam your girls! As far as requiring weight loss or spray tans, remember why you’re asking these girls to stand by you on the most important day of your life. Appreciate them for who they are and don’t get too caught up in the aesthetics.
-Nikki with Southern Affairs